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Okay not sure why I am doing this except I hate going to the clubs and bars alone. What am I looking for well that's not so hard. I'm looking to meet someone who wants to spend weekends together and maybe a night or two during the week. Currently in my life I can not commit to a relationship the way they should be. So I am looking to find someone half way decent that after getting to know one another we could I guess they call it friends with benefits. No I'm not gonna just jump in the sack with ya, sorry. I guess it would be dating but also I am only a one person deal, another words if were dating and sharing one another with each other I would expect the respect I would give you and stay with just the one and not be messing around with others as well. I do not have a problem committing myself but at this time in my life, after losing my husband and a couple of other family members I just want to chill out have a few drinks, maybe hang out at the beach. I do want someone that is humorous as I find that very attractive.Here are a couple of things, I am a smoker so I prefer a smoker. I don't want to hear " oh that's nasty" I am a blunt person and will just tell ya tough you don't like to there is the door. I want someone that is tall, at least six feet, someone that has energy and lives close to me. I do stay within my race, I am white. So if you are interested send me a pic and tell me what you enjoy doing and lets see where it goes from there.Where are all the good guys?Hi there, let me start off by saying that I am not looking for hookups, I want something real. I am a white, 23 yr old, 5'5", with brown hair, hazel eyes and I am a BBW and DDF (I expect the same). I like a guy that has a sense of humor, enjoys family events and days where we stay at home and watch a movie or play games and can make each other laugh. A sense of humor is a must, plus no thugs and no man over 30. I am going to college and I am a single mom to 2 beautiful children. Knowing that I am a mom I expect you to understand why I can't meet you anytime at random. My family means the most to me and I hope to find someone that understands that and can be patient. If you are interested, respond and PUT YOUR AGE IN THE SUBJECT LINE and also SEND A PICTURE. If you don't send a pic then I will just delete it your email. If we have a good conversation then maybe we can exchange numbers to talk more but I don't nor won't just give my number out.

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