ongoing sw/sbm fwb for cute bbw.
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Maybe some of you will know the meaning of all of those abbreviations, and yet, you STILL wont get what I am looking for. Maybe there are too many psycho, marriage-thirsty women out there. Maybe men just think too highly of themselves lately, and assume women are out to get them. Maybe there is a scarcity of women who say when they want just sex and actively seek it out. In any case, I think the scene is being infected with paranoia, which makes it hard to have an ongoing nice thing without it turning into a shitstorm. Maybe this generation just doesn't know how to play nice. In any case, for the record, this is what I imagine a FWB is. If the rules have changed, someone send me the memo. • You are genuinely attracted to each other. For you, it'd be a thick/curvy, cute Latina, with an above-average sex drive who is considerate, safe, d/d free and slightly submissive (for me, that's well-spoken men over 5'9", between 35-50).• You MAKE TIME to hook up about once a week. • You MAKE TIME to hang out about once a month- drinks, movie, informal dinner, for example. • You are a gentleman/lady outside of the bedroom (I don't mean pick up the check...I mean be nice. And if you need to ask how, the conversation would be pointless).• If any of the above cannot be done, then you stop hooking up and it's totally fine, no drama necessary. And for the younger/more inexperienced crowd, let me just say this: when you sleep over at a woman's house, if she's awake, you better be having sex, recuperating from having sex or folding laundry. Otherwise leave and don't ask what she did once you were gone. Those are the system-wide rules I believe in: as for my personal preferences, please be local, able to host every now and then, and have something more interesting than your penis to share.No FACE pic, no reply. Lets get a drink or coffee (maybe tonight?) and see where it goes. Married men: if you read this, you'd know this isn't for you.