!!!!! I Need a fucking guy !!!!!!
Here's the skinny: I'm not into the whole hook up, one-nighter, roll in the hay thing. I actually want a relationship (oh boy! a dirty word!).....i want to make memories, share experience, and ultimately create a life with someone.....calm down, i don't mean to make it sound like this kind of thing is instant, i just wanted to say that's what i'm working toward.....Me: Fun, unique, romantic, honest, educated and easy going. I'm African-American (in case that matters to anybody).......I'm not a size 2, 6 or 8, so if you're looking for that supermodel figure with a tiny waist and huge knockers, I can't help you, and I don't apologize.....I'm curvaceous, voluptuous, and full figured....I'm also a gym, rat i'm in there at least 4 times a week (yeah i'm taking off quite a bit).....I LOVE to travel, i take a yearly trip to Vegas with friends, and I'll be heading to Boston next month!....I love dogs, music, Thai food, and a bunch of other things, we'll have to talk about!single mother that is looking for a little "me" time. I am not sure what exactly I am looking for at this point. I guess I am up for anything to see where things lead. My kids are my life so please be kid friendly. Also don't waste either of our time if you live at home with your parents, no job, no car or are just a complete douche to begin with...Single gal, 30 years old, petite, and slender, with long dark hair and fierce green eyes,and fair skinned looking for someone to make a real connection with, something real, withstanding, special. I'm pretty independent, financially and otherwise.I have a good professional job in the medical field that I love despite the fact that it cab get kinda crazy sometimes at work, I take it in stride. I would definitely consider myself overworked, underpaid and ridiculously over educated.I am from the south, was raised to be a good ole southern gal, but that sorta lifestyle wasn't for me. I wanted to see the world, have adventures, and everyday not being happy is certainly a waste of a day. I love to travel and I have taken even opportunity to do so. After college I spent 6 months on my own in eastern and South Africa. Too bad I came back with the malaria as a souvenir! I've also been to Canada and Mexico, Central and South America. I've spent time in Israel and on the West Bank. I have family in Spain and Italy that I imposed on during my travels. You know they love it when their American niece and cousin show up om their doorstep unannounced needing a place to crash :) I've also backpacked around Great Briton which was a lot of funOk, so I like military men, I think it has something to do with the warrior ethos that they are taught. Men who are taught to work on their own or with a team to complete a mission, to me id very impressive.Not to mention keeping a cool head when the whole world erupts aroused you into shit and you can't just stand there and die. I have nothing but respect for men who can get their way out of these situations and move on with what they are supposed to be doing while keeping their cool. I imagine it would be something like a rough day in surgery with a lot of surprises.And nothing is sexier than a man in a uniform. I've always thought myself to be a good pick for a man in the military, I am undoubtedly loyal, faithful and honest. I love the idea of my dream military guy teaching me what he know, making me into his own little soldier, and of course I would love to teach my man about emergency medical care, the two of us making a team that learns together, grows together and becomes as close as two people can be.I am a passionate person. I love deeply, which has led to me being hurt, but I've always weathered the storm. If you are looking for an attractive, loving, yet independent girl to get to know better that would be me. I like to read and spend quiet evenings at home, but I also like to go out, I love Reds games. going to the movies, and other things around town. I like the art museum and the conservatory, and I even have a collection of my own bonsai trees, which has to be the most unfulfilling hobby in the world. I am an armature writer, I have a friend who has published books all on her own through Amazon, which is a huge goal of mine. I write constantly, an NO not poetry, I'm an adult for pete's sake not a troubled 14 year old girl.Anyway, if you would like to meet and get to know someone who is above average, that wants a real relationship that gets better with time instead of stagnant and hostile like I see many couples out there today, you may want to email me. I'm a pretty girl, although I am kinda little. I like to learn from my partner and him from me. I also like sport bikes, beaches, camping and hiking, spending time with my dog, cooking, quiet evenings at home or going out with friends, I'd like to learn how to shoot a gun, and pretty much else anything a man would be willing to teach meI'm not the topical 30 year old woman. I'm better, special, and waiting for Mr Amazing to come along and make my life complete as I know I can do for him.And to all you haters out there STOP FUCKING FLAGGING ME!!!!! I'M NOT BREAKING ANY RULES BY BEING ATTRACTED TO SOMEONE SPECIFICAND I WILL keep reposting till I find Mr Right for this lovely girl :)BTW I have no kids, no baggage, no crazy ex boyfriends, no former marriages. Pic for pic...lets get to know each other.You: I want you to be yourself.....no need to tell me what you think i want to hear, because chances are i'll probably surprise you :)......I like a man with goals and ambitions, i'd love to meet someone who wants a relationship and not a hook up....I realize that sex is important, but its not the be all and end all, so please don't ask me my measurments, boob size, butt size (yeah it's happened) or try to "seduce me" with raunchy conversation, because i can guarantee you that the conversation will be short. No drugs, disease free, and please be somewhere in the 30-37 age range.......Oh, and i prefer interracial relationships, its not really a requirement, but i tend to gravitate toward caucasian, italian, or men of mixed descent (see i surprised you didn't i!)......Just one more thing, you MUST drive.....i don't care WHAT you drive, but i'm a little tired of dating guys that don't drive....LOL....Ok...that's it! Talk to you soon! (you can place CRAZY in the email subject so i'll know you're a human!)